Questions about supporting someone?
Practical answers without the jargon.

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Looking after someone’s financial life doesn’t come with instructions

So we’ve started collecting answers to the questions that come up again and again when we speak to families. Hopefully they’ll help you find your feet. We’ll keep adding to them. If there’s something you’d love us to answer, drop us a line at hello@everheld.co.uk.

A name for the work you’re already doing

What is
Financial Carekeeping?

Financial carekeeping is the everyday work of helping someone you care about stay on top of money and financial admin.

It can mean keeping an eye on bills, organising accounts and policies, helping with benefits, finding documents, making phone calls or keeping the family on the same page.

Sometimes there is formal authority, such as a lasting power of attorney. Often there is not. It usually starts with one small thing and grows quietly over time.

A simple place to start

What should I do when someone needs help with their finances?

Choose the situation that feels closest. You’ll get a short starting point, not a legal diagnosis.

Jargon buster

What do these words mean?

Seen a word you do not know in a form or letter? Find it below for a quick answer. Open it if you need more detail.

A–Z of terms Choose a word to read more

AttorneyThe person you choose to make certain decisions for you.

Across the UK

They are named in a legal form. They could be a friend or relative and do not have to be a lawyer. The form says what they can do.

Continuing power of attorneyA way to choose someone to help with money and property.

Scotland

You choose the person while you can still decide for yourself. The same document can also say who can help with your care.

ControllerA person chosen by a court to manage someone’s money.

Northern Ireland

A court may choose a controller when an adult cannot manage their money or property themselves. The court says what the controller can do.

DeputyshipWhen a court chooses someone to make certain decisions.

England and Wales

This may be needed when a person cannot make those decisions and has not already chosen someone suitable. The person the court chooses is called a deputy. The court says what they can do.

Donor or granterThe person who chooses someone else to act for them.

Across the UK

Forms in England, Wales and Northern Ireland may call this person a donor. In Scotland, they may be called a granter.

DWP appointeeA person approved to manage someone else’s benefits.

DWP benefits

DWP is the government department that pays many benefits. It can approve someone to apply for and manage benefits for a person who cannot do this themselves. This does not cover all of the person’s money.

Enduring power of attorney (EPA)A form for letting someone help with money and property.

England, Wales and Northern Ireland

In England and Wales, this is an older form made before October 2007. In Northern Ireland, people still use this type of form today. The rules are different in each place.

Guardianship or intervention orderCourt permission to help someone with certain decisions.

Scotland

This may be needed if an adult cannot make those choices themselves. Guardianship can cover help over time. An intervention order is usually for one specific task.

Health and welfare LPAThe form for help with health and care choices.

England and Wales

It can cover care, treatment and where you live. The person you choose can only make a particular choice if you cannot make that choice yourself at the time.

Lasting power of attorney (LPA)A form for choosing who can help with decisions.

England and Wales

There are two types. One covers money and property. The other covers health and care. You can choose one or both while you can still make that choice yourself.

Mental capacityBeing able to make a particular decision at a particular time.

Across the UK

Capacity is about the decision in front of someone, when it needs to be made. A person may be able to choose what to buy at the shop but need help with a complex decision about selling a home. A diagnosis alone does not tell you what they can decide.

It is not a fixed label. Illness, pain or tiredness may make a decision harder today than it is tomorrow. Someone may find a certain time of day easier. If it is safe to wait, it may help to try again when they are better able to decide.

Start by helping the person decide for themselves. Use simple words, give them time and find a way for them to communicate that works for them. In England and Wales, the legal test looks at whether they can understand what matters, remember it long enough, weigh up the options and share their decision in any way.

An unusual choice does not, by itself, mean they cannot decide. If there is real doubt about an important decision, ask an appropriate professional for help. The legal rules differ across the UK.

Read the NHS guide to mental capacity
Office of the Public Guardian (OPG)A public office that records some forms about decision-making.

England, Wales and Scotland

It records forms that name someone to make decisions for another person and checks how some people use that role. Scotland has its own office, separate from England and Wales.

Power of attorney (POA)A legal way to choose someone you trust to act for you.

Across the UK

You make it while you can still decide for yourself. It covers certain decisions, not everything. The forms and rules differ across the UK.

Property and financial affairs LPAThe form for help with money and property.

England and Wales

It can let the person you choose pay bills, deal with bank accounts or sell a home. The form and the rules set out when they can help and what they can do.

Third-party mandateA bank’s way to let someone help with an account.

Banking

The account holder must be able to agree to the help. Each bank sets its own rules about what the helper can do. Ask the bank what it allows before relying on it.

Clear answers

The questions families ask us most

What is financial carekeeping?

Financial carekeeping is the everyday work of helping someone you care about stay on top of money and financial admin. It can include bills, accounts, benefits, insurance, documents, phone calls and keeping other family members informed. It often begins informally, long before anyone has power of attorney or thinks of themselves as a carer.

What do power of attorney, deputyship and appointeeship mean?

A power of attorney is made while a person can decide who they want to act for them. A court appointment may be needed if they can no longer make the relevant decisions and no suitable power is already in place: in England and Wales this is usually called deputyship, in Scotland it may be guardianship or an intervention order, and in Northern Ireland the court may appoint a controller. A DWP appointee is different again and deals only with benefits.

Who is a financial carekeeper?

A financial carekeeper is anyone helping another person with the practical work around money. It might be an adult child helping a parent, one partner helping another, a sibling, friend or neighbour. Some have formal authority. Many are simply helping because life has changed and somebody needs to keep track.

Can I help someone manage money without power of attorney?

Yes, if the person can make their own decisions and agrees to the help. You can organise paperwork together, help them understand bills, attend calls or meetings with permission and ask providers about trusted-person support. You should not pretend to be them or use their PINs, cards or online banking passwords.

What is a third-party mandate?

A third-party mandate is an arrangement with a bank that may allow a named person to help with day-to-day banking. What it covers varies by bank. It is generally intended for someone who can still make their own decisions and authorise the arrangement. It is not a substitute for a lasting power of attorney (LPA) in England and Wales, or the equivalent legal authority elsewhere in the UK, if they can no longer make the relevant decisions.

When should we consider a lasting power of attorney?

Consider it before it is urgently needed. In England and Wales, a property and financial affairs lasting power of attorney (LPA) can let chosen attorneys help with bank accounts, bills, benefits, pensions and property. The person making it must be able to understand and decide what they are setting up. Scotland and Northern Ireland use different forms and terms.

Is power of attorney the same across the UK?

No. England and Wales use lasting powers of attorney (LPAs). Scotland uses continuing powers for money and property and welfare powers for personal decisions; these can be combined. Northern Ireland uses enduring powers of attorney (EPAs) for property and financial affairs. The documents, registration process and rules are different, so use the official guidance for the nation where the arrangement needs to operate.

Is guardianship the same across the UK?

No. In Scotland, a sheriff court can grant guardianship or an intervention order for financial or welfare decisions. In England and Wales, the comparable ongoing financial role is usually a deputy appointed by the Court of Protection; the word guardian is used differently. In Northern Ireland, the Office of Care and Protection may appoint a controller to manage an adult’s property and financial affairs.

What if the person cannot make financial decisions and there is no power of attorney?

First check paperwork and ask trusted family members or a solicitor who may have helped the person. In England and Wales, you can ask the Office of the Public Guardian to search its registers. If no suitable authority exists, the route depends on where the person lives: deputyship in England and Wales, guardianship or an intervention order in Scotland, or a controller through the Office of Care and Protection in Northern Ireland. Get advice before applying because each court process is different.

What is a DWP appointee?

A DWP appointee deals with benefits paid by the Department for Work and Pensions for someone who cannot manage their own claim. The role covers benefit claims and payments; it does not give wider authority over all of the person’s money or property. Benefits paid by Social Security Scotland or Northern Ireland’s Department for Communities have their own appointee process.

How should I keep records when helping someone with money?

Keep a simple record of bills paid, calls made, decisions taken, money moved and why. Store receipts and important documents safely. Keep the person’s money separate from your own. Good records reduce confusion, help families work together and are especially important for attorneys, deputies and appointees.

How do I start a conversation about helping with finances?

Start with what would make life easier, not with taking control. Ask what feels difficult, what they want help with and what they want to keep doing themselves. Agree one small next step, such as listing regular bills or putting important documents in one place.

Is financial carekeeping the same as financial advice?

No. Financial carekeeping is about helping someone organise, understand and manage the practical side of their financial life. Regulated financial advice is a separate professional service covering recommendations about products, investments or pensions.

What is Everheld building?

Everheld is building the financial carekeeping community first: listening to the people already doing this work, giving the role a name and creating clear, useful guidance. What we learn from that community will shape the tools we build next.

Community first

We’re building Everheld with the people already doing this.

Financial carekeepers have been largely invisible. We want to give the role a name, make reliable information easier to understand and learn directly from the families living it. Those conversations will shape what Everheld becomes.

Where to go next

Useful places to turn

Need a form, want to check a process or have a question about your own situation? These organisations can help you take the next step.

MoneyHelper: everyday money support Office of the Public Guardian: lasting power of attorney in England and Wales Office of the Public Guardian: check if someone has legal authority England and Wales: becoming a deputy Scotland: power of attorney Scotland: guardianship Northern Ireland: enduring power of attorney Northern Ireland: Office of Care and Protection GOV.UK: DWP appointeeship

Choose the guidance for the place where the arrangement will be used. England and Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland have different forms and court processes.

Help shape what comes next.

Join the early Everheld community. We’ll share useful guidance and invite you to help shape the tools we build.